Saturday, October 11, 2014

September Recap/October Goals

September Goals
1. Move savings account, close old one. Done! The money is moved and earning interest in the new account, and the old one is just hanging out (it stays open for 60 days automatically, so I am just waiting to verify that it closed). 

2. Lower grocery spending. Success! We spent nearly $100 less on groceries this month, and it didn't translate into the eating out category (we spent nearly $150 less there!). I, uh, am not totally sure how I accomplished that, but I'm happy it happened. In an upcoming post, I'll detail how I'm changing my grocery strategy in the next couple of months. 

3. Get some nesting done without spending $$$. Success, although I've also thrown money at some of my to-do list items as well. Peanut built my bathroom cabinet, which I am really happy about (it cost about half what it would have cost new, and although it's not fancy or anything, it certainly gets the job done). I bought fabric at half-off to make crib sheets and we donated a bunch of stuff to thrift stores. I like clearing things out to make way for new stuff - I keep reminding myself not to go through my clothes, because I would end up getting rid of all my non-maternity stuff, and it's entirely possible that most of it will fit me again....someday. Even though it doesn't feel like it while I am approximately the size of Shamu. 

October Goals
1. Take a look at retirement savings.  Peanut and I have been maxing out Roths whenever possible for a long time now (we skipped a few years in order to completely pay off our student loans), and whenever there was an employer match, we contributed at least that much to a 401(k). We're doing okay, I think, for our ages, but we have never sat down and actually looked at what we think we might need to save for retirement - we have no goal in mind, besides "as much as we can". And this is fine - we're not going to change our savings strategy right now, mainly because there's no additional money we can funnel towards retirement with only one of us working. But it might impact when I decide to go back to work, so it's something I'd like to think about. 

2. Finish my big nesting projects. While I've technically got two handfuls of weeks left in this pregnancy, I feel pressed for time. Frankly, I'm shocked that I'm still pregnant because I was really expecting another micropreemie, and now I'm starting to think that I might make it all the way to full term, which is awesome, except that it's a busy time of year! Some of the things I want to take care of sooner than later are Christmas shopping and personal projects - not baby-related stuff so much as stuff that I will probably not get back to for months. 

Christmas shopping won't be too difficult - we stopped exchanging gifts with the adults in our families a few years ago, so it's just an infant niece and a teenage nephew that I'm shopping for (and the nephew is getting a Minecraft quilt, which I've already started). And we agreed to do a white elephant gift exchange with my husband's family, so that will be one adult to buy for (which reminds me that I need to have my MIL have people draw names early!). Oh, and I guess we'll probably get Pickle something to open - she started to get the concept of gifts at her birthday party last month, and while we won't be going overboard on her, I saw a cute pretend kitchen set at a thrift store the other day that I think she would love. 

3. Take time to enjoy it. We have no idea if this is our last baby, although we're leaning towards yes. What I do know is that these are the last few weeks that my amazing daughter will be an only child, and I'm trying to remind myself that these are literally the last moments during which she will be my baby. I'm taking advantage of the fact that she will still let me rock her fully to sleep and I have the time to do so during the day. I'm trying not to make her wait when she wants my attention - she'll be getting plenty of that soon enough. I'm trying to be happy to read the same book six times in a row because it makes her so happy. And I'm trying to enjoy the kicks and squirms of the baby that's about to join our home, as this is the last time that I will be able to protect him from everything and provide for his every need by the act of merely breathing. 

I never expected that motherhood would make me so sentimental, but it's really a magical time. It's so easy to lose that in the frustrations of a toddler having a tantrum or the discomforts of pregnancy, but my life has so much meaning that it didn't have before, and I love it. 

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