Each year, I make the same number of resolutions as the last number of the year. So this year, I am making five resolutions.
1. Less yelling. I would like to make this one "no yelling" but I also want to have a chance to succeed. :) The truth is, staying home with a toddler was challenging enough and now I'm adding a newborn to the mix. I don't want to be a yelling mom, especially given that Pickle is so not a bad kid - she's just a normal two year old and while that can be annoying at times, she doesn't deserve to be yelled at for it. I tend to yell when frustrated, and I want to curb this tendency while my kids are young enough to not remember that it ever happened.
2. Get stronger. Spending nine months taking it easy was tough on my body, as if pregnancy and a c-section weren't enough. I couldn't even push Pickle in a stroller two blocks to the park (doctor's orders!) so now everything feels like a challenge. When I'm cleared to resume exercise, I'd like to actually make a point to do it - I don't care so much about weight loss or appearance, but I want to feel strong again and I want to lose some of the pain I'm feeling from compensating for weaker abdominal muscles. I think something like a short daily yoga routine, plus 100 push-ups or 200 sit-ups, or even just dropping down and doing something active when I have a few minutes while both kids are napping or occupied.
3. Treasure the moment. At the end of 2015, I will have a preschooler and a toddler - no babies. And since Baby Bear is probably our last child, I'd like to really appreciate the moments that I have home with them. Being a stay at home mom (or any parent, really) is full of frustration and boredom, but there are such beautiful moments as well. I want to try to pay attention to those and treasure them instead of rushing through to the next thing on my to-do list.
4. Max out retirement. Peanut and I have been trying really hard to max out Roth IRAs for both of us each year, even though I'm not working, to minimize the long-term effect my unemployment will have for our family. This means making some sacrifices and doing some planning, and I am committed to doing it for 2015 again.
5. Bring in some side income. I contribute to our family in lots of ways, but I like to bring in some cash, too - especially for "extras" like trips. Last year I did some freelancing, which might not be possible this year, but I'll be on the lookout for survey and focus group opportunities, chances to sell baby items, and other ways to bring home some bacon.